Why Only the Happily Single Find True Love

Tips | Advice | Dating | Love

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One of the key requirements for having a good chance of finding the right partner is not to mind too much being single. If you like our films, take a look at our shop (we ship worldwide): https://goo.gl/rgpEkK Join our mailing list: http://bit.ly/2e0TQNJ Or visit us in person at our London HQ https://goo.gl/cCR4oi FURTHER READING “One of the most important principles for choosing a lover sensibly is not to feel in any hurry to make a choice. Being satisfied with being single is a precondition of satisfactory coupledom. We cannot choose wisely when remaining single feels unbearable. We have to be utterly at peace with the prospect of many years of solitude in order to have any chance of forming a good relationship. Or we’ll love no longer being single rather more than we love the partner who spared us being so…” You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://goo.gl/9l4QhR MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/LrrfCJ Watch more films on RELATIONSHIPS in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLrelationships You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://goo.gl/c3R9uf SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Sashko Danylenko http://sashkodanylenko.com/ #TheSchoolOfLife

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This made me feel so good 😊. I was feeling like I wanted something that didn't exist.
The cats are sooooo cute!!!! :3
I did not know this is not suited for work. There should be a warning!
So true!👍 “ times up/downs,happiness,health-wise,humble & kind “ as much as possible 👍👏✌being single is awesome 👏🏼✌🏼😜😀
I didn't need to see the birds humping could have gone without that visual these animators are weird
I'm eighteen years old and have never been in a relationship. There was always a pressure from friends, society, parents to find someone but no-one I met ever really felt right and I learned to be happy with myself and now feel like I just know myself completely and love myself. Now a month ago I met a boy that I really like and he likes me too. I'm just happy that I waited and spared myself all this heartache to now have a clean slate with someone who I feel really fits me! :) keep your heads up everyone
Great video,Love can come when you least expect it.Some times its right infront of you and you haven't noticed it.https://youtu.be/7a2IzqSEH64
its about finances and the way the system sets it up also isolation
I want to hump a bird like that
Only happily singles find love? It is a myth not a fact. I have been happily single for 25 years (half of my life) and I have yet found love in these 25 years (not that I wasn’t looking).
The difficult part is to tell people that I've been single for a very long time, they may think that I'm not so good in relationship s
I genuinely don't think that being in a relationship is for me, I just think it only serves to hold me back.
100000%
This comment is not productive at all. You can say whatever, but I saw the title of this video and it made me mad. It made me mad because it’s like the universe plays a sick, cruel joke on you by being like, “Oh, you’re sad and you want to be with someone? Tough shit. You’ll get no one and like it.” But then when you’re feeling good and enjoying the single life, all of a sudden people start coming into your life like, “I want to be with you. I wanna spend my life with you.” And I’m sitting here, thinking to myself, “Um? No. Where were you when I wanted you? Nowhere to be found. You didn’t care when I felt like crap; So, why do you care now?” I’ll never understand why that happens. When you want someone, they’re never there; And when you don’t want someone, they don’t leave you alone. It’s so backwards to me. Oh well. I just wanted to get it off my chest. Not like anyone cares anyways...
This is a nice theory that is in effect Horse Shit.
Got that right. We got too obsessed with sex, as if it was the key to our loneliness's liberation. Which is not. To be single and happy is to dive deep within your own intimacy and enjoy this journey. Life can give you what your heart craves for if you understand how it works :) And it takes patience!
If you choose to be single and you're happy with that, then stay single. There is a difference between being single and being with someone but, it depends on the person on how they handle that.
Not many people can be happily single. That is why almost everyone wants to avoid being alone, even if it means being in an unhappy relationship. Humans are like birds. We are wired to pair up and thrive in a flock. Being happily single is a result of conscious effort, not a naturally occurring phenomenon. However, this video offers good advice. Because if you're single, being happy is the best recipe. It's a waste of time to be unhappy. There is no guarantee you'll meet the right person either. So being happy is the only way to go no matter what happens.
If you're happily single, you can't love. You don't understand love. What you call "love" is a a fucking mockery of what real love is. Love is emotional hunger that consumes you. Love is a religion. The person you love is just a partner. Like a dance. You love to love more that you love to be with a specific person. Just like when you like to dance, it doesn't really matter too much who you're dancing with.
After the age of 15 being single makes you feel like shit, I’m 22 and wanna die cause I’m single