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    Why Only the Happily Single Find True Love

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    One of the key requirements for having a good chance of finding the right partner is not to mind too much being single. If you like our films, take a look at our shop (we ship worldwide): https://goo.gl/rgpEkK Join our mailing list: http://bit.ly/2e0TQNJ Or visit us in person at our London HQ https://goo.gl/cCR4oi FURTHER READING “One of the most important principles for choosing a lover sensibly is not to feel in any hurry to make a choice. Being satisfied with being single is a precondition of satisfactory coupledom. We cannot choose wisely when remaining single feels unbearable. We have to be utterly at peace with the prospect of many years of solitude in order to have any chance of forming a good relationship. Or we’ll love no longer being single rather more than we love the partner who spared us being so…” You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://goo.gl/9l4QhR MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/LrrfCJ Watch more films on RELATIONSHIPS in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLrelationships You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://goo.gl/c3R9uf SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Sashko Danylenko http://sashkodanylenko.com/ #TheSchoolOfLife



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    1. After the age of 15 being single makes you feel like shit, I’m 22 and wanna die cause I’m single
    2. start from the beginning. the one constant in the universe is the speed of light (physics), it is not a deity (religion) and is not nothing (atheism). Universes alternate between matter and anti-matter. electricity alternates between positive and negative electrons. civilizations alternate between patriarchy (men with blind girls and castrated boys) and matriarchy (women with husbands). Half of human civilizations, most men have no genitals for a relationship, and women are bound to a master.
    3. 1:19 LMAO
    4. Always beware of those who have all the answers
    5. This is all pure Bullshit. I have been happily single doing my thing when I was in high school. Did I meet my love? No. Then came university where I was engaged with studies, did I meet anyone? No. Being happy single is in no way predictor you'll find someone. Life isn't a movie where you bump into a your "true love" in a mall and sparks fly and fall in love. From my observations so far, relationships come down easily to people who are considered conventionally attractive in society. They barely have to put into any effort. For them, Luck seems to follow them everywhere, all the time. They would, however, claim it's because they were happy being single and confidence that led them to their partners but that's farther from the truth. They got "lucky" in love because they were within the conventionally attractive margin, so eventually they were noticed by someone. The rest Avg/below avg guys? They are invisible to most women

      "Learn to be happy yourself"

      Translation: This video is basically saying, if you're just Avg, learn to be happy with dying alone, without ever having any relationship.
    6. ROFL...LMAO...lol
    7. I have been alone for 25 dang years! Isn't that good enough! I just keep getting rejected. Twice by the same woman! 😞
    8. With due respect but I cannot support what is told in this video. Even though Alain sounds friendly and wise as always. I am living on my own for 15 years now. Yes, it is not bad. Sometimes it's great to come home, close the door and just being able to do whatever you like. Spent the whole day naked, behave in a way you would never do with company. But it is no shame to need somebody. It is no shame and no weakness to wish there'd be someone to share. And it does not mean that you would hurry getting into the first available relationship. No! There might be a lot of people doing this. But I never would marry or live together with someone I don't love just because I could not stand being on my own. I also realize that it is a high possibility that I will die alone. But so do many of the married people. Because they usually don't die at the same day. And I prefer to be lonely on my own than to be lonely together. The thing is: Unfortunately there is no formula, no prescription for a relationship. The best thing you can do is, being yourself. That might scare some potential partners - or not. It is a risk. But: No pain, no gain.
      Again, I like this channel mostly. But this video is simply taking the matter much to easy. And Alain should be careful not to become a guru. Thank you anyway.
    9. What kind of retarded british nonsense is this?! You wait for marriage so you're worth something. It's alot better than going to bars and being a piece of meat in someone's perverted fantasy behind close doors.
      Let's make this simple here are some the pros of being married.
      *You make babies
      *you make more babies and shape previous babies lives.
      *you become apart of something bigger then your sex drive.
      *you don't feel guilty having sex.
      *you and your love are dignified in both of your sights because you both earned that respect.
      *you;re not just compelled not to cheat, you don't do so because that person has become apart of who your are.
      *you grow through life with someone as a witness to your accomplishments.
      * you become humbled by the fact that people are more important than your base liberal safe zone.
      *you get to see your children's lives unfold as a movie, and have the honor helping them decide their future.
      *you have a life companion, to experience and explore life with.
      *you have someone who's held to an honor bound commitment to not do you wrong.
      *you sacrifice some of your most favorite things because they are so dear to you.
      *you can be yourself and take off the "popular mask" around your husband/wife.
      *you can have someone hold your hand if you're in the hospital.
      *you get a second opinion with your inner most desires, dreams, and mysteries.
      *you feel a sense of completion when 8 billion people on the planet would rather get off doing something immoral.
      *you can believe in Jesus as God without being made fun of.
      *you can have sex endlessly without worry of disease, or sickness.
      *you can have your wife document and count all the amazing things you do for her so you she can put that cheesy crap in the book of world records.
      *you can have someone cry at your funeral who can tell people who you used to be
      Real marriage between a man and a woman actually under God, is the most amazing thing humanity has ever accomplished. Regardless the society we live in, once you people have gotten to the point where common sense doesn't register anymore, you'll be the consequence of your own decadent decisions.
      Im desperate to find the person I'm supposed to walk into eternity with, this is deeper than your sex drive, naturalistic opinions, and perverted desires. They're are mysteries in love that go deeper than your libido, and are more important than your feelings. I can give at least one example as to why I have to find this woman of true love, and its called "home".
      The home isn't what box you put the woman in, SHE IS the home. I want to go HOME and so do other romantic, nice guy, straight, Godly men. Black, white, asian or otherwise, the original natural man is looking for his home. You're a joke for down playing something like that.
      I like the old christian version better, it's honorable both for men and women.
    10. I could enjoy being single, but the part that sucks is not being able to have constant sex and cuddles and intimacy. That's the dark side of singledom
    11. a relationship should be the union of two healthy loners.
    12. I think there's no way to find true love in this world ..
      First time I was hurt ..
      Second time I was hurt ..
      Third time I don't wanna hurt again 😐
    13. It’s Ben a while 👋. Keep it time for a update
    14. One way single people stay content, calm if they do what they love or love what they are doing.
    15. 'We'll love no longer being single rather more than we love the partner who spared us being so'- What???!
    16. Don’t wait too long though. I'm 28 and just found the love of my life. She's 8 years younger than me and came out of a previous relationship. She's pretty laid back about the relationship in general (which is cool), but I want to see her more (I love her too much). I think you shouldn't wait for love, but you need to give it time. I didn't even consider a girlfriend until 23, but then I went abroad and didn't have the time or money.
    17. 37 years in, still waiting 🤔
    18. Love the animation! Would love to see a behind scene!
    19. Which means I’m doomed
    20. but, individualism itself is a very depressing thing. you must take your own responsibility. even if you're in some mental health issues, no one else is obligated to help you except yourself. this solitude is indeed depressing.

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