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Btw your awesome💕💕 💕💕💕💕👍 I know stability is both important to us and i been married before but he hasn't and i also have 3 kids and accept them as his own and he also have kids my age and my kids know they have future brothers that's older than them and it doesn't bother them Wow girl you get straight to the point!!!!!i was 25 when me and my boyfriend started dating he's 55 now and we been together for 4 years now,we both work,live together,and we both pay the bills,im glad that's he not that type of guy Am 20 and my boo is 50... I love him a lot. He doesn't look his age tho so is it wrong that i’m 14 & he’s 18, but he said he’s gonna “fall back” because this boy said he was talking to me, what do i do? i’m craving for his attention, but i don’t wanna seem desperate or childish .. or do i just drop it & move on? a lot of things you are saying is 100% true, but alot of us older men jut want some one to just be with them and spend time with them and just being able to hold and cuddle a younger woman is very important to me.. i like a woman who is fun not just in the bedroom. to me i rather you be with your friends than to be some one that isn't your friend.. i want not to be anyones dad.. I mean dsting an older man not someone that is under 30 okay so this was not what i asked to see ugh You remind me of a nicer cardi b lol Very wise advice, you covered all of the bases. Thank you. forgive me for being critical, but i feel like you're sort of passing through this issue with a biased lens, as if like every older guy is a certain way, and every girl is a certain way. i wouldn't date a minor, for many, many reasons, but i'm not some slick manipulative rich older guy. i'm fairly passive, over-analytical, geeky, nerdy, and i like females who take charge, rather than me being the one that is expected to take initiative. i mean, if i'm asked to be more assertive/aggressive, i can try, but only if i feel comfortable with someone. i think maybe to a certain degree your general speak could be true, so i'm not discounting everything you're saying, but whether it's uncommon or not, do not forget about exceptions. i'm far from a typical person, i am technically on the autism spectrum with high-functioning Asperger's Syndrome. when i was 24, i once knew this 17 year old, and back then i was more morally questionable and questioned why age of consent laws even existed (i was extreme Libertarian for a while, anti-government etc). she had a crush on me, and i fancied her as well, but in Wisconsin, which has some of the most strict consent laws in the world (not just USA, but literally of the most strict in the whole world) i just didn't want to deal with the fallout of getting caught up, so i kept having to tell her we couldn't do anything until she was a year older. she was impatient though, and i admit i let some situations go farther than i should have, but i was probably a bigger idiot at age 24 than a normal male would be at age 16. the worst things that happened was one time she called me on the phone and halfway through the call she wanted phone sex, i didn't do any roleplay with her, but she told me i could just talk about random stuff while she masturbated. then aside from that, i eventually told her that i was into crossdressing and role reversal (even though i literally have never had a relationship nor sexual experience in my life at that point fyi, but i was still interested in that stuff), and then she offered to give me some old panties and skinny jeans she didn't want anymore. let's see, oh yeah, the night she gave me the clothes, she ended up kissing me, and then i asked for a second kiss, but that is about it, and me asking for the second kiss is the extent of how comfortable i am about taking initiative with females, i am generally too anxious and unconfident otherwise. nothing ever went further than that, because i told her i didn't want to have a fling, i wanted to actually date her, but only if she was willing to tell her mom about me, and it became obvious soon after she had no interest in trying to make that work, though there were other factors she eventually brought up since i was just out of a job a few months prior and i to this day am still too anxious and procrastinative to get my driver's license. so yeah, i had no job, no car, and she didn't actually want to have a serious relationship, which for me at the time, i was still in a state of mind clinging onto Disney fantasy of soul mates and long term relationships, i am generally turned off by the concept of hookups, even to this day, but i've given up on the soul mate concept. and the thing is, let's say she did agree to date me and have me meet the parents, i still wouldn't have had sex with her. it's not that i'm afraid to break the law, i'll smoke weed any day, fuck these fascist laws, but then again, the people around me sort of gave me that cultural vibe that they would rather go to jail for marijuana, than for "jailbait" sex with a minor. this was eight years ago fyi, i've done a lot of rethinking about these sorts of things and studied the reasoning behind consent laws, and while a part of me still wishes to maximize liberty, i've started to agree that grown ass adult shouldn't be messing with high schoolers. i'm still attracted to younger women moreso than not, but i have a complex way of assessing and analyzing the type of female, or, i'm sorry, i've been problematic, i should be saying AFAB (assigned female at birth) though i suppose i can just say girl/women, because i would say i'm most likely a gynephile since i'm okay with the idea of dating a transwoman so long as they pass as a woman.anyways, looks and age matter to me to a certain point but i value chemistry, personality, and common interests slightly more. for each physical fault, i grade these, gistfully, based on both a technical reasoning, but also emotional reasoning, and i weigh the pros and cons of dating someone depending on all these factors. i know some people don't weigh common interests at all, but i can't do that, i would be such a burden in the relationship because of my autism/geekdom, i can't keep conversations going for long outside of my passion interests. like, if they don't like My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, then all those like 150 episodes i watched, i would never be able to discuss them with a partner then. what if they don't like Netflix original series? yes, some people like this actually exist, or they like the shit shows Netflix makes. i don't need a girl who has carbon copy interests, but there at least has to be hope, a bridge of a fair amount of interests, otherwise if there's no common ground, then my only interest in her would be for sex, then i would go off playing Guild Wars 2 while listening to Dubstep. my ideal body type for a girl would be somewhere between Shoe0nHead, Catie Wayne, and then RageAfterStorm (and yes, i know RAS is an alt-right/white identitarian bitch, but i'm only talking about looks, not her shitty bigoted opinions). for personality, i would say maybe a cross between Ash Hardell, ContraPoints, and a little bit of Shoe0nHead sort of sense of humor. basically someone who is very kind and thoughtful (Ash), but also creative and intelligent (Contra), and then very cheeky and fun like (Shoe). i digress, i went on a bit of an autistic tangent, but i don't like to delete tangents, they express who and what i am, a damn autistic fool, lol. you made overall very solid points, generally speaking, but again, try next time to allow more examples of exceptions to the norm, because a lot of men and women exist who are quite different than from what you might have experienced. i clicked on this thinking this was for girls dating guys only like 4 yrs older but i loove your advice baby Older men who have money tend to be smart and mature compared to poor men old or young. When I was 20 I was talking to an older guy he told me he was 31 but to find out he was wayy older . Sister i love you boo but you wrong right there. This is so fucked up but i was 6 and my mans was 10 its real weird but now im 13 and he’s 17 bouta be 18. But we love each other unlike almost everyone else. My finger prints in his phone ik all his accounts he takes me on dates 4/5 days a week around that. 😊. Dumb females all about money smh! Not all about money wake the fuck up I'm 18 and I like this guy who's 25 and he wants to be with me but I don't think my mom would like it and also he has 2 kids Only 50+ is older to me What about being 19 1/2 and he's 27?