4 Dating Struggles of Highly Intelligent Men

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A man’s superior intelligence can often get in the way of him experiencing success with women. For example: He can end up over-analyzing what is required to attract a woman and as a result, he might then go into his shell and feel unworthy of the kinds of women that he really wants. Yet, the fact is that most women (including pretty, beautiful women) are very easy to attract and pick up. You just have to understand how a woman’s attraction really works and once you do, you can instantly begin to push a woman’s buttons and make her feel attracted to you. In the video above, I provide examples of what you can say and do to instantly and easily begin to trigger a woman’s feelings of attraction for you. I also explain the following, 4 dating struggles of a highly intelligent man: 1. He's so used to being right about everything in life that he can't see how it could be possible for him to be wrong about women in any way. 2. He usually takes what women say literally, when it comes to the subject of attraction. 3. He often thinks that small talk is for stupid people. 4. He usually doesn't like to be seen as a beginner at anything. When you watch the video, you will realize that dating for intellectuals doesn’t need to be difficult at all. In fact, due to your superior intelligence as a man, you should be able to understand and then apply my techniques quicker and easier than a guy who isn’t as smart as you are. When you apply my techniques during interactions with women, you will see that women do feel a spark with you and their attraction for you rapidly increases as you continue talking to them. As a result, you can then get to a phone number, kiss, sex, date and into a relationship with the woman because she really wants it to happen. To learn more dating tips for smart guys and how to make women appreciate and love your intelligence as a man, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Cheers Dan Bacon Author of The Flow and founder of TheModernMan.com P.S. As explained in the video, women do appreciate intelligent men. However, the way that it works is as follows… P.P.S. If you’ve ever asked yourself the question, “Why don’t women like me?” or, “How can I make women want me?” make sure that you subscribe to my Youtube channel now. While watching my videos, you will learn that you really ARE good enough for the majority of women out there and simply need to start creating a spark with them during conversations to make them want you. I always include examples of how to do that in my videos, so be sure to subscribe to learn more: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1

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I bought "The Flow" on audio and have listened to it like 10 times. I highly highly highly recommend this book! Money well well spent. It's the best and most simple well laid out content I've found.
Great... Really... I was missing something for a while, not understanding why some girls were so easily attracted by me and some others really seemed to be but didn't understand why despite that they didn't feel the "thing" that make them wanna go any further... You just gave me the "spark" that lead me to understand, thanks a lot dude ❤️
Bro mind blown. Thanks for the video
Why is this in my recommended? I'm about as far from intelligent as a person could get.
The problem with people with intelligence , is that you know each “hello “ leads to “goodbye “ , and we can map out the diagram , start to finish of the relationship , in our head in the first few moments of a conversation .

It’s just depressing ...
The inevitability of it all ...
Lmao most of people in this comment section are too entitled to themselves. Quit being a smartass and an asshole, that's probably why you're failing at dating. Everyone believes they're more intelligent than everyone else, so please just shut up.
I stutter in front of pretty girls and that's the biggest problem of being a male, controlling your urges.
Could you say that the "code" is realizing that the initial interaction between men and women is inherently awkward, no matter what, but you succeed when you acknowledge that fact through nuanced conversation?? (hence, jokes)
I have to say I love a smart guy...I love men who know things....But sense of humour is equality important....It is good to be serious and intelligent but laughs are also vital....
Now I'm a woman. Does it work for men too?
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Note that down fellow guys:

If she ain't a gold digger - a woman won't give a shit about your property, how much money you earn and how much muscles you have.

That's why in most cases, flexing won't improve your game.
BOOM! For almost a decade I've struggled with this problem (IQ north of 140). This is the first rational explanation I've found. Thank you
Yeah man . They expect a simple answer for things , but there is so much nuance in alot of these things they assume are more simplistic, and the majority are just intuitively understanding why they enjoy something so they are fulfilled with a shallow answer because they think its what is generally acceptable as a reasonable explanation , yet they are unaware of the reasoning behind why they have emotional connections towards activities , so when you go deep into a concept it comes off odd to many .

And intuitive thinking is a turn off for me ,because it usually leads to red flags in the future were they just wont agree with logic no matter what argument you present because they are so accustomed to trusting their gut .

Edit : I want a high intellegent woman , I get almost every number I want , but I intentionally push women away , I can just tell early on that the relationship is going to be one sided, and I'm going to pretty much be an entertainer and teacher the whole time , and I cant help but feel like I'm settling.
You are my hero!
Spot on!
As someone who has trouble with women I can say I found out what exactly is the reason I was struggling.
When i'm with friends I can use insults etc (banter) as jokes and they will understand and laugh about it. But when it comes to women i'm interested in I can feel confident enough but that banter just goes out the window. But that banter is exactly what you need. This is (I think) what women mean when they say they want to be (good) friends with someone before they go into relationships. They want that same kind of interaction with someone as that someone has with their friends.
This is what I am struggling with. And i'm sure allot of other men are aswell. But i'm learning and evolving. Eventually i'll succeed :)
A woman will never admit she likes a guy who is a challenge. Even if she knows it.
Your intro is my life. So sad
Thanks, this video is on the money. You verbatim described how my mind works and why it sometimes results in struggles with women. Like it was actually kinda freaky how on the money you were about my behavior and thought patterns. Good shit man.
Thank you for helping me see that I am not a bad person for wanting sex and that being a confident sexual man is something that I don’t have to be ashamed of.